"I wish I had the confidence to have my own boudoir session!" I have heard this so frequently throughout my career in boudoir and I'll be honest friend... It breaks my heart every time. If they only knew they don't need to have confidence to do this at all.
The beautiful woman you see there in that photo is my client and now friend, Nancy. Or, Fancy Nancy as I call her. If you could meet her, you would know why I say that! This woman just SPARKLES with a love for life, adventure and her fellow sisters in a way that is definitely not the norm. It's beautiful to watch. As you see Nancy recently had a session with Phoenix and wow did we have fun! It was 2 days, 2 studios and ended with an amazing dinner with our new friend. Well, dinner and margaritas of course because she knows how I love those.
My Nancy looks nothing short of confident here, right? Let me tell you friend... she had many nerves leading up to her shoot just like every other woman. What gave her the confidence to finally pull the trigger and book that session she had been looking at for months? It wasn't an unimaginable amount of confidence. It was an unimaginable amount of faith in me and my team to not only show the world her beauty but make her FEEL beautiful and confident as well. Turns out she now describes it as one of the best experiences of her life. We are so honored to have been a part of her growth and are definitely here for the journey.
So, the answer is you DON'T need confidence to book that session. The best things in my life have happened when I stood in the middle of what seemed like a hurricane of fear and doubt and made myself face it. Those are the most life changing moments, friend.
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